As I continue down my path to spiritual enlightenment (and learning how to love me), my teacher has suggested that I ask myself these three questions (in any situation):
1. Does this take care of me?
2. Does this harm anyone?
3. Is this in the greatest good of all?
Three simple questions that have left me somewhat puzzled...
So I called my teacher for additional clarity... The main thing I heard her say was, "I'm supposed to consider myself FIRST in any situation," (no one else). And that the answers are simple - Yes or No.